I’ve been holding out on you, readers. Truth is, I’m a silly gal. In fact, in my family it’s kind of a running joke: Dad’s silly, mom’s a little sillier, my oldest son even more so and the 18-month-old? Well he’s so silly he’s already laughing at himself.
When I’m with my family, I take pride in being playful and silly. I make up words and sounds so often that my son is always asking me if I’m using real words or made up ones. I make up songs to sing about what we’re up to — even if it’s just brushing teeth or cooking dinner.
My silly side isn’t limited to indoor play, of course. I have been known to throw my share of water balloons and spend serious amounts of time digging in the dirt. I’ve even been spotted making a “meadow” angel during visits to Yosemite.
What does all this have to do with encouraging nature play, you ask?
Sometimes kids need a little nudge. To let ’em know it’s okay to let loose, get dirty or wet or whatever. Sometimes we need to show them how. Lead by example.
Case in point: One night after dinner a few weeks ago it was pitch black out and raining, I suddenly felt compelled to get outside. When I suggested we head outdoors for a walk, my 5 year old looked at me as if I was crazy and asked, “For reals, mommy?”
But guess what happened next? He excitedly put on his rain boots and jacket and took off exploring ahead of me — jumping in puddles, kicking up water, sticking out his tongue trying to catch raindrops. Enjoying it all without a care in the world.
And that’s the way I want his childhood to be — full of opportunities to be silly and playful, exploring his world without thinking twice about a little dirt, water, grass stains, scratches or whatever else he might encounter along the way.
In our family, my mantra is the dirtier/messier/wetter you are, the more fun you’re having. Which applies to the adults, too. After all, it’s our duty to show the kids how it’s done.
To encourage all of you to join in on the effort, I’m making Fridays “Fun Day” (a name suggested by my son) here at goexplorenature.com. Each week I’ll let you in on some of the ways I share my silly spirit with my kids to foster outdoor play.
I’d love for you to share some of your ideas, too. I know I’m not the only one who’s got a whole lot of kid inside her itching to get out!
Thanks for sharing everyone! It is so great to know that I am not alone in my silliness!
Good point. I'm just glad I now have an excuse for acting silly and fun. An adult roaming the neighborhood and jumping in puddles = a little odd. An adult with kids = a fun parent!
Luv silly moments, especially in the rain! I always feel badly for the children that aren't "allowed to get dirty" as they look enviously at children getting messy and having fun. Let's fill the world with puddle-jumping, mudpie-making,messy kids! Thanks for sharing Debi.
Love it, Debi! You know I am as silly as they come. Modeling joy, playfulness, and happiness are some of the greatest lessons we can share. <br />Cheers- Bethe @balmeras
I am totally with you on lead by example. <br />Children bring the kid out in you – and I love being a kid again, even just for a short time.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing Debi.