If you don’t live in Southern California (or Hawaii or maybe Australia), it might be hard to imagine 70 plus degree temps and sunny skies that go on forever.
But that’s what winter has served up for us SoCal folks so far and I’m lucky enough to have spent last week vacationing in Oxnard, a beachside community about an hour north of Los Angeles.
This was the first time my 20-month old had seen the ocean. He took full advantage of all there was to be discovered.
What precisely does a toddler do at the beach? Here’s what our Little Explorer enjoyed:
- Throwing gobs of wet sand at the ocean, at someone else or at himself
- Chasing the tide
- Splashing in the water
- Making footprints in the sand
- Walking the shoreline with dad at his side
- Digging in the sand with a shovel or bare hands
- Filling a bucket with sand, then emptying said bucket
- Gathering sticks, rocks, dried seaweed and whatever else he could find along the shore
- Pouncing on sand castles
- Feeling the sensation of having sand on his hands, between his fingers, on his face and in his mouth
- Watching the sunset
- Running through sand without abandon
Our beach visit was a great reminder to me that enjoying the outdoors starts early – even before your little one can talk.
If you plan on heading to the beach this winter with your toddler (and with such amazing weather in Southern California these days, there’s no reason not to), here are a few things I recommend:
Give your child room to roam – Resist the urge to control your child’s every move. Give your little one freedom to explore.
Be a model of fun – Show your toddler how to have fun by doing so yourself. Bury your feet in the sand, dig, build, splash, chase … whatever brings you joy.
Allow for messes – The beach is sandy and wet, so why try to avoid a mess? My youngest went through at least two sets of clothes every day and was full of sand from head to toe. I took it as a sign of successful fun.
Dress for the weather – Winter at the beach doesn’t necessarily mean shorts and T-shirts, at least not in Los Angeles. I dressed my kids in layers that could easily be removed or added back on as necessary. Other key items include sandals, hats and plenty of sunscreen.
Go with the flow – Just because you’ve brought along the buckets and shovels doesn’t mean your little one will have any use for them. Left to their own devices, kids will create their own fun and games. Go with it.
Bring along an extra set of hands, if possible – When it comes to toddlers, the more hands on deck, the better. You need all the energy you can get!
I challenge you to take your toddler outdoors every day … there is much fun to be had!
DEBI says
Carolina, you are absolutely right that beaches are hidden treasures during the winter, when no one seems to be around! Glad to hear your little one has decided to come off the towel "island." Score one for perseverance!<br /><br />Mel, always happy to share my slice of sunshine with you as you weather through the snow!<br /><br />Catherine, I'm sorta glad to hear it's warmer
Sharlene says
Lately it has been tshirt and flip flop beach weather at the Socal beaches. We live at the beach year round. I love it. Adorable pictures.
CatWay says
Sounds like much fun was had. Would you believe I'm waiting for it to be cool enough for us to go to the beach – at the moment it is nearly 30 deg C here in North Aust. when we wake up.
Mel says
We went to the beach just a bit south (more east, actually) of Oxnard this summer and my boys (1 and 2.5 at the time) loved it! They didn't want to get anywhere near the water–too scary–but they played in the sand all day. We have a picture of them on the fridge from that day, which we are enjoying all winter long. (It snowed about 6 inches last night…)<br /><br />Glad you had such a
Carolina says
I'm a bit jealous of the socal winter beach weather, it has been a tid bit colder here in norcal. But we still made it to the beach over winter break, it's my favorite time of year to go to some places because the crowds are missing. I've been taking my kid to the beach since a baby, but he did go through this weird time when he was a toddler, where he didn't want to touch the